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MEDIA CONTACTS:

National:
Lisa Braun Dubbels, Catalyst Publicity
612.806.4455 | lisa@catalystpublicity.com

Wisconsin:
Mike Counter
920.364.8864

Recent Coverage

Recent interviews and reporting on the book, Cassandra’s legacy, and the conversations it continues to open.

Book facts

TITLE

Maybe Life Hurts: So We Don’t Miss Her Lessons

EDITORS

Carol Bruess and Kurt Voss

PUBLISHER

Cassandra Jane Press

PUBLICATION DATE

September 18, 2026

FORMAT

Hardcover

PRICE

$59.95

CONTRIBUTORS

42 voices

CONTENTS

Essays, poetry, letters, reflections and visual art

ORDER

Available through this site

Book Descriptions

SHORT DESCRIPTION

A book for living the questions

A visually rich collection about grief, love, and the questions that change us, inspired by a feminist daughter and the father who let their relationship transform him.

LONG DESCRIPTION

A chorus of voices

Maybe Life Hurts is a beautifully designed collection of essays, poetry, letters, and art about the questions we carry through grief, love, faith, identity, and healing. Inspired by the life of Cassandra Voss and the ongoing dialogue between Cassandra and her father, Kurt, it asks what can happen when we stop rushing toward answers and stay open to being changed by one another.

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Story Angles

With 42 contributors, Maybe Life Hurts holds many distinct stories and perspectives. These angles are a starting point; we can connect media with a contributor whose experience fits a particular story or audience.

FEMINIST & GENDER MEDIA

The feminist daughter and the conservative father

Cassandra challenged Kurt, invited him into unfamiliar rooms, and stayed in relationship across disagreement. He listened and let himself be changed.

GRIEF, LOSS & MORTALITY

What grief made possible

How a father turned devastating loss into dialogue, friendship, a center, and a living legacy — including an unexpected friendship with bell hooks.

FAITH, MEANING & SOCIAL HEALING

Living the questions

Why some of life’s most important questions are not problems to solve. Carol explores uncertainty, contradiction, and the pressure to force tidy answers.

BROADCAST & REGIONAL TV

The letter you haven’t sent

What might change if you sent the apology, admiration, or truth you keep postponing? The book’s stationery makes the invitation concrete.

RELATIONSHIPS & PSYCHOLOGY

Grief and joy are not opposites

The book’s both/and realities hold grief and joy, faith and doubt, brokenness and repair at the same time.

HIGHER EDUCATION & CIVIC DIALOGUE

Dialogue across difference

What it takes to stay at the table with someone you love when you disagree. A family and civic story that invites curiosity.

Bios & Headshots

Carol Bruess, co-editor of Maybe Life Hurts

Carol Bruess, PhD

Co-editor · relationship researcher

Carol Bruess, PhD, is a relationship researcher, author, professor emerita, and co-editor of Maybe Life Hurts. She can speak about the book’s questions, relationships, and the power of staying in conversation.

Kurt Voss, co-editor of Maybe Life Hurts

Kurt Voss

Co-editor · Cassandra’s father

Kurt Voss is Cassandra’s father and co-editor of Maybe Life Hurts. His relationship with Cassandra across political difference and his work to honor her legacy are central to the story behind the book.

Cassandra Voss resting in a field
The inspiration behind the book

Cassandra Voss

Cassandra Voss’s life, art, and curiosity are at the heart of Maybe Life Hurts. Her conversations with her father helped shape its invitation to stay open to one another across difference.

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REVIEW COPIES & INTERVIEWS

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