The voices that shaped
Maybe Life Hurts

Forty-two writers, researchers, artists, teachers, clinicians, journalists, faith leaders, priests and religious sisters, doctors, death doulas, parents, therapists, and everyday people who keep living the questions themselves.

  • Chancey Anderson Tauer

    Co-founder, Prodeo Academy; public charter school network closing the opportunity gap in Minnesota.

  • Joy Baker, contributor to Maybe Life Hurts

    Joy Baker

    Investigative journalist; co-author of Dear Jacob: A Mother’s Journey of Hope.

  • Lori Baudino, contributor to Maybe Life Hurts

    Lori Baudino, Psy.D.

    Psy.D., BC-DMT; integrates movement and body awareness into psychotherapeutic practice.

  • Christina Boyd-Smith, Ph.D., contributor to Maybe Life Hurts

    Christina Boyd-Smith, Ph.D.

    Accredited professional coach helping teams and families in business, nonprofit, and education.

  • William Brendel, Ed.D.

    Award-winning educator, organizational change; founder, OpenSource OD.

  • Suzan Brinker, Ph.D., contributor to Maybe Life Hurts

    Suzan Brinker, Ph.D.

    Cassandra’s college roommate and close friend; based in Concord, Massachusetts.

  • Maria Burnham, contributor to Maybe Life Hurts

    Maria Burnham

    High school English teacher; based in St. Cloud, Minnesota.

  • Canaan Cooper, contributor to Maybe Life Hurts

    Canaan Cooper

    Saint John’s University ‘25; poet exploring science, faith, and adversity. From Nassau, Bahamas.

  • Karlyn Crowley, contributor to Maybe Life Hurts

    Karlyn Crowley, Ph.D.

    19th President of Kalamazoo College; founding director of the Cassandra Voss Center.

  • Kim Dicso, contributor to Maybe Life Hurts

    Kim Dicso

    Multi-genre writer and musician based in the Sierra Nevada mountains; author’s novel ARROWS forthcoming.

  • William J. Doherty, Ph.D., contributor to Maybe Life Hurts

    William J. Doherty, Ph.D.

    Professor Emeritus, University of Minnesota; co-founder of Braver Angels.

  • Katie Dohan, contributor to Maybe Life Hurts

    Katie Dohman

    Award-winning journalist and style editor; writing has appeared in Teen Vogue and beyond.

  • David Eddie, Ph.D., ABPP, contributor to Maybe Life Hurts

    David Eddie, Ph.D., ABPP

    Clinical psychologist and researcher; Recovery Research Institute, Massachusetts General Hospital.

  • Heather Faase, contributor to Maybe Life Hurts

    Heather Faase

    Community leader building bridges between faiths; based in Brussels, Belgium.

  • S. Julianne Gilbert, contributor to Maybe Life Hurts

    S. Julianne Gilbert

    Sister of the Order of Saint Benedict, Saint Joseph, Minnesota.

  • Chris Gonzalez, contributor to Maybe Life Hurts

    Chris Gonzalez, Ph.D.

    Professor, therapist, and writer in Nashville; founded the Marriage and Family Therapy program at Lipscomb University.

  • Melissa Gorzelanczyk, contributor to Maybe Life Hurts

    Melissa Gorzelanczyk

    Writer, speaker, and sober artist; author of ARROWS (Penguin Random House). Based in Green Bay, Wisconsin.

  • Alex Gruber, contributor to Maybe Life Hurts

    Alex Gruber

    Doctoral student in theology at Fordham University; writes on regional religious history.

  • Laurie Healy, contributor to Maybe Life Hurts

    Laurie Healy

    Certified CRAFT recovery coach; helps families navigate addiction and early recovery.

  • Leah Hoffman, contributor to Maybe Life Hurts

    Leah Hoffman

    Mental health and couples therapist; owner of Growing Together Counseling & Healing, Hudson, Wisconsin.

  • bell hooks, contributor to Maybe Life Hurts

    bell hooks

    Inaugural Resident Scholar, The Cassandra Voss Center. Beloved sister, friend, companion, and caretaker of Valeria Watkins.

  • Lily Janousek, contributor to Maybe Life Hurts

    Lily Janousek

    “Notes app poet”; creator and co-founder of the Bearing It All podcast on grief and life.

  • Betsy Johnson, contributor to Maybe Life Hurts

    Betsy Johnson

    Teaches English and Strategic Communication at the College of Saint Benedict and Saint John’s University.

  • Anna Kudak, Ph.D., contributor to Maybe Life Hurts

    Anna Kudak, Ph.D.

    Teaches interpersonal and family communication at the University of St. Thomas; co-author with Carol Bruess.

  • R. Alice Lavendel, contributor to Maybe Life Hurts

    R. Alice Lavendel

    Poet and assemblage artist based in New York City; M.A., Courtauld Institute of Art.

  • Devon Linssen, researcher & contributor to Maybe Life Hurts

    Devon Linssen

    St. Norbert College ‘23; researcher and writer for this book project.

  • Ronald Manning, contributor to Maybe Life Hurts

    Ronald Manning, M.D.

    Physician practicing hospice care; based in Wisconsin.

  • Moya McGinn Mathews, contributor to Maybe Life Hurts

    Moya McGinn Mathews

    Musician, minister, yoga teacher, and “Nana”; author of Honoring Loss, Growing Through Grief.

  • Mary McGreevy, contributor to Maybe Life Hurts

    Mary McGreevy

    Creator and host of Tips From Dead People; lives in St. Paul, Minnesota.

  • Seamus (James) Neilson, contributor to Maybe Life Hurts

    Seamus (James) Neilson

    Cassandra’s favorite art teacher; close friend of the Voss family; based in DePere, Wisconsin.

  • Gregor Nelson, Ed.D., contributor to Maybe Life Hurts

    Gregor Nelson, Ed.D.

    Helps individuals and organizations grow; background in human resources and organizational learning.

  • Annika Osell, contributor to Maybe Life Hurts

    Annika Osell

    Former AmeriCorps member serving the Cassandra Voss Center; works in nonprofit community engagement.

  • Alma Jean Spitz, researcher & contributor to Maybe Life Hurts

    Alma Jean Spitz

    St. Norbert College ‘21; works in community mental health in Milwaukee, Wisconsin.

  • Joan Steffend, contributor to Maybe Life Hurts

    Joan Steffend

    Emmy-winning anchor/reporter, KARE-TV; author of And She Sparkled and Peace In, Peace Out.

  • Jesie Steffes, contributor to Maybe Life Hurts

    Jesie Steffes

    Colorado-based writer and grief therapist; writes at Sated Soul on Substack.

  • Deanna A. Thompson, Ph.D., contributor to Maybe Life Hurts

    Deanna A. Thompson, Ph.D.

    Author and speaker; retired inaugural director, Lutheran Center for Faith, Values, and Community, St. Olaf College.

  • Elaine Tosetti, contributor to Maybe Life Hurts

    Elaine Tosetti

    Based in New England; devoted to functional fitness and mushroom foraging with her wife, Mia.

  • Ava Van Straten, contributor to Maybe Life Hurts

    Ava Van Straten

    Yale ‘25; works on the Child Sex Trafficking Team at the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children.

  • Paul J. Wadell, contributor to Maybe Life Hurts

    Paul J. Wadell, Ph.D.

    Professor Emeritus of Theology and Religious Studies, St. Norbert College; author of Friendship and the Moral Life.

  • Valeria Watkins, Ph.D., contributor to Maybe Life Hurts

    Valeria Watkins, Ph.D.

    Retired advisor at Berea College; Ph.D. in transpersonal psychology. Sister of bell hooks.

  • Patty Wetterling, contributor to Maybe Life Hurts

    Patty Wetterling

    Co-founder, Jacob Wetterling Resource Center; author of Dear Jacob: A Mother’s Journey of Hope.

  • Jane Whitlock, contributor to Maybe Life Hurts

    Jane Whitlock

    Death educator and end-of-life doula; co-founder of Full Circle Care in Minneapolis.

  • Cathy Wurzer, contributor to Maybe Life Hurts book

    Cathy Wurzer

    Broadcast journalist, Minnesota Public Radio & Twin Cities PBS; founder, End in Mind Project.